My husband makes comments about me that are not nice. He says he's joking just to pick on me but it is driving me crazy! Picture this: I'm 5'5", 115 pounds...thin and attractive. Seriously! He makes comments about my butt, boobs, thighs...you name it. I have had two children but you wouldn't know it. I even look about 5-10 years younger than my actual age! What's up with that?
Why does he say rude comments?
I will give you the answer...as I had the same problem.
Your husband has low self esteem. You are gorgeous and he is afraid of losing you. He is trying to lower your self esteem. He is saying negative things about you, to make you think they are true and to lower your self esteem. He is jealous that you still look great. I'll bet he probably doesn't look as great as he used to.
How I got my husband out of it??
When he would say something negative I'd respond...
"funny you don't like my [whatever]....all the other guys sure do"
or
"gee honey....if you're not happy with my [whatever] I'm sure I'd have
no problem finding someone out there that does."
It shut his mouth up and opened my eyes up.
I realized that -- yes! I was a gorgeous beautiful woman after two children -inside and out.
And Yes! He was a fat good for nothing beer drinking loser....and now he's gone!!
And I'm with someone who loves me...for me...and my kids and never ever says anything negative about me.
Good Luck Sweetie. Don't let him do this to you because you know that none of it is true. Find out the real reason why he is doing this and maybe open up your eyes, too!!
Why does he say rude comments?
Maybe he just doesn't deserve you! And certainly doesn't know how to treat you!
Why does he say rude comments?
make fun of him
Why does he say rude comments?
so is he callin u fat or skinny is he sayin u got no butt or boobs or what need more info
Why does he say rude comments?
its like flirting, if it bothers you kick his groin
Why does he say rude comments?
maybe hes just concious about those parts of his body... tell him if he keeps making fun of that then he wont be getting of that
Why does he say rude comments?
he just kidding around w/ u
Why does he say rude comments?
there could be 2 reasons.
1. He is just kidding.
2. He is trying to keep your self asteem low so you dont leave him for a better looking guy. ;)
Why does he say rude comments?
Why don't you tell HIM that it bothers you instead of the whole world? Ask HIM why he makes those comments. Then you could get some answers that actually make sense instead of getting bogus answers from people that don't even know him.
Why does he say rude comments?
it means he's insecure about himself so he makes fun of you as a way to make himself feel better, trust i do it all the time to my friends when im uncomfortable i just make fun of them
Why does he say rude comments?
He probably doesnt know any other way to express his feelings towards you. You shouldn't take it too seriously though.
Why does he say rude comments?
Aww . . . he's just teasing you . . . so tease him back!
My lovey and I play like that all the time! =)
Why does he say rude comments?
maybe he is hoping for you to comment his bodyparts, or maybe you already call him needle dyck or pinch his beer belly?
Why does he say rude comments?
put up some pictures on a 360 page, so we can be on your side
Why does he say rude comments?
I don't know what to tell you. If he keeps this up, YOU have to put a stop to it (him)!
Why does he say rude comments?
he's trying to lower your self esteem. if you look hot he's afraid he's going to lose you and in the long run he just might
Why does he say rude comments?
Maybe you should just accept the fact that he is just teasing!!
P.S. Can i have a pic and you telephone number x.........lol
Why does he say rude comments?
hes being an ***. trying to be the "big bad man" he see's himself as. give it right back to him. maybe you'll hit a nerve on him and he'll see how it feels and stop saying things to you about it :)
Why does he say rude comments?
what goes around comes around.make fun of him.
Why does he say rude comments?
He thinks he is funny but he's not. He is compensating for his own insecurioties of his own body.
Why does he say rude comments?
because he z just like this !
Why does he say rude comments?
well it's weird but guys show their attraction to girls by hate. Talk to him about it. Tell him how you feel. If that doesn't work out pick on him and put him in your situation!!
I hope everything works out for you!!!
Why does he say rude comments?
He's suppose to compliment you, not disrespect you dear. Tell him that he won't miss his water until his well runs dry....This is a simple bs way of a man trying to lower your esteem. May God bless you.
Why does he say rude comments?
He is a jerk. Plain and simple. He is a jerk. No body has a right to talk like that to you. Stand up and tell him straight how you feel. Don't get mad or emotional (at least don't show it on the outside), just tell him straight...lay down the law...you will stop treating me with disrespect or you will be gone. If he is a decent man he will understand and try to do the right thing.
Why does he say rude comments?
he doesn't realize that it bothers you so much.
Tell him it bothers you.
Why does he say rude comments?
Maybe he is getting jealous of you ....
Why does he say rude comments?
He's insecure about himself, so he's trying to make you feel bad about yourself to make himself feel better.
Tell him you don't like it, and you'll probably have to remind every couple of weeks. (Men are kinda dense)
Why does he say rude comments?
He probably does it so that you don't think you are attractive you know he is the one that is insecure and probably feels like you deserve better than him. But in order to live up to what he believes is your standards he has to bring you down to his. Just tell "Josh" that he has nothing to worry about. You love him dearly and there is no need to feel threatened. He will calm down after that. But tell him in a loving kind of motherly way.
Why does he say rude comments?
maybe he is really joking about
you seem like a beautiful girl to me
i know you can get ride of it
please do not argue with him about that because it is a petty stuff
Why does he say rude comments?
He has no respect or love for you or he couldnt hurt you that way.
Why does he say rude comments?
He could in fact be joking, but then again he may just be abusive that way. If you already told him and he hasn't stopped yet, then he's probably an verbally abuse husband. If you're as attractive as you say you are, I would worship you. lol
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